who here is a biology degree graduate and had kids and is lost for carreer i really lost myself as a mother

I need to find myself again im a sahm and i.love being a mother to my kids.However i feel lost as a motherhood.Im constantly caring for two toddlers and a husband who can sometimes act like a child .Im the type i dont want to rely on aam financialy.He is persuing his carreer and getting premoted.I really.dont.want to.be known as just the caregiver for my kids .When i graduated with bachleors degree of biologyin 2018 i really worked my ass to graduate and try to.make it i graduated when my son was a month old i did it as pregnant and being married and trying to give my husbands needs it was hard.I dont want to sit on my degree like its nothing and just sit him to care for my kids.I have moms who tell me you can work but you will lose your kids cause your not with them most of time.they say you will work and come home to work more to get things done .My kids are going to school a 5 year old and my 2 will be 3 in preschool soon .What im i gping to do hang home i want to find something now and look for a careel.with biology degree .