Please read before voting, I really need some advice. I'm a single mom of 2 kids, I have sole custody for both. I've been single for a few years now and I just recently joined a dating app for parents. This guy messaged me, he is paraplegic. We've talking for a few days now, we text a lot but I haven't asked anything about his condition yet.  I do have a couple of questions but part of me really doesn't want to make things more personal for now. Anyway, he mentioned something about not being able to have more than one drink because of his neurogenic bladder and for whatever reason that did change things for me. He also told me that his mom lives at home with him and that she has dementia, he has 2 kids of his own. He has 60% custody. My youngest one is barely 1, I wouldn't have the time or patience to chance anyone else's diapers. I haven't asked him if he uses them but I guess I'm kinda afraid of his answer. He is really sweet and I like to talk to him. So far everyone else has made stupid comments and this guy is the only one who hasn't asked for nudes. Part of me wants to give it a try, part of me knows that I really don't have to do this but I don't know... I could honestly see him beyond the wheelchair but I don't know if I'd want to have a serious relationship with him. Should I just stop messaging or should I see where thing go. I do think he has a lot going on. I'm not sure I want the full package.