Husband always 'out-ill's' me

I might be overreacting here so want to get others opinions. Me and husband have been married 5 years. In that time I have had a few times I've been ill or in need of support/a break. The first was when our son was born, I had PPD and was really struggling. 2 weeks in hubby got a cold and said he didn't want to hold the baby in case he got him ill too. I had 2 weeks of pretty much solo parenting and also looking after hubby while suffering with PPD, it was awful.

Fast forward to the following year and I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks. Hubby also had a cold at this time and other than the few hours I was actively miscarrying he was laid up on the couch and I was looking after our toddler alone.

Now to present day I'm in first trimester of 2nd pregnancy and feeling like crap. But once again hubby is ill will a cough and headache and I haven't had a chance to properly rest or prioritise this new baby because I'm running around after a 3 year old terrified I'll miscarry again.

I just want to catch a break. I want to be the one who is looked after instead of the one who has to suck it up and get on with it. He doesn't seem to cope well with feeling ill and is pretty much constantly telling me how tired he is. I'm tired to man! But I have to just deal with it because I'm the mom.

Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable or if you'd also be annoyed...