Daughter missed another hair appointment for her graduation

I made this post not even a week ago. The issue was my daughter wanted to get her hair done for her middle school graduation. I was originally gonna make the appointment when i got off of work but she decided to do it and gave me the wrong date. So we missed it. The only other time slot they have before her graduation tomorrow was today and I couldn't take her because I had to take my 17 year old son to get shots. He is very aggressive when it comes to shots. He wasn't always like that but he played football because his dad kind of forced him to and recieved a severe head injury in middle school and another one in high school and the second head injury was the worst. He was hospitalized a while. He had a personality change where his emotions switch like crazy. He started bed wetting and since his injury we haven't heard from his dad. But after the injury he gets very aggressive sometimes. Especially when it comes to needles. So I kind of have to be there. Some of the comments I got on my last post I didn't. Understand. Many people were telling me my husband needs to step up... For a hair appointment... That my daughter told me the wrong date for. My husband had to work. Sone people are privileged to have jobs that won't fire you for being late or calling in. He isn't blessed with that. Saying my husband needed to step up made me angry because he needs his job more than my daughter needs a hair appointment. We couldn't reschedule my son's shots the doctors office he goes to is booking months out because several doctors quit and they have to move everyone and I'm not rescheduling my son's shot months out for a hair. Sorry not sorry. Priorities. You can probably tell I'm pissed in this post and I am because of how my daughter spoke to me. So we finally found a solution. One of her friends mom's lives by the salon and said she would drop my daughter off and when my daughter is done she can just walk to their home and I can pick her up on my way back from the doctors office. Well I basically drag my son in the car and out the car and we are in the waiting room and he's freaking out. My daughter calls me crying saying the mom left without her. She gives me the mom's number and I call her and she said she told my daughter she wasn't waiting. She said she told my daughter if she wasn't at the car by 3pm she's leaving without her. My daughter gets out of school at 245pm. She had 15 minutes. I called my daughter and she said the mom did tell her that but she was talking to a friend and lost track of time. I told my daughter I didn't know what she wanted me to do. She had another chance to get her hair done and messed that up. I told her to get on the bus and go home. By then they called my son back and I had to get off the phone with her. She calls again while we are trying to hold my son down to get him his shot while he goes crazy and she calls me crying begging me to take her. I said "I am 45 minutes away and in the middle of giving your brother his shots! I'm not gonna be able to make it in time!" So she starts saying this is fucking stupid and she hates me for not caring about her hair and I said "If you truly cared about getting your hair done you would have gotten your butt to your friend's car instead of talking to other people. You're not gonna get your hair done! Get over it!" I was pissed. Then during the shot my son bit me so my day has been great! She's currently mad at me and said it's my fault she can't get her hair done but I am so over the attitude. Her hair is straight. She'll look fine tomorrow. There's nothing I can do, she missed her second appointment and I was charged a SECOND no call no show fee. I'm done

@Molly plz show me where I insulted anyone. Because you weren't the only one who said that. If you take me saying that people telling me that made me angry as me "insulting" you than that's a you problem. Mutiple people commented that. I stated how that made me feel. I didn't insult or cuss at anyone so you telling me fuck you obviously means you just ignored completely how I was feeling. I was mad when I made this post. Plz point out where you think I insulted "you" or anyone. Also telling someone to step up when you don't know the situation is rude regardless.

@Molly I apologize if you felt like I was trying to insult you. I wasn't trying to do that. I was just trying to express that those comments made me upset. I don't remember your comment actually upsetting me that much. It was specifically the ones that were acting like me, my husband, and my son are at fault for this and we all need to change everything around to accommodate my daughter's mistake when it wasn't possible. Comments telling me I wasn't being fair to her or comments telling me that she shouldn't have to miss getting her hair done because my child with BRAIN DAMAGE is afraid of shots which if they can read that's wasn't why. I'm sorry if my little rant up there came off like I was attacking you but it was mainly towards the people acting like we are all in the wrong and I need to be doing everything in my power and rearrange every and push shots back by MONTHS just so my daughter could get her hair done.