So me and my partner have been together just over 2 years now. I love him deeply and I’m attracted to him just as I was the day we first met, if not more now.

We moved in together around 7/8 months ago, and since then I just feel as though my sex drive is majorly low - but the weird thing is, I think about sex a fair bit, but when we’re in bed the idea of doing it just doesn’t appeal to me, like I just don’t really get turned on that much at the minute, and it’s nothing to do with my feelings towards him, I guess maybe the sex is just a bit boring/too similar each time..

So, how can we spice things up? We’re both very vanilla and will only ever use two different positions, we both get off the same way each time, so what sorta stuff can a couple try without it being too much? Deffo only including the two of us as neither of us would be comfortable with having anyone else join