Husband left because I wanted to talk

I tried getting my husband to just spend time with me instead of on our phones or watching a movie. Tried to be intimate with him and he rejected me again. I tried talking to him about it and he yelled at me that I was just nagging him and that I’m flipping things around to make it his fault.it’s midnight and he just took off… He just left and threw his wedding ring at me after I asked him why he keeps rejecting me for anything intimate.. he kept saying I could have the house, the car and whatever else what do I want. Then when he came back home.. he said that I didn’t make him angry enough or he would either start punching holes in the wall or come at me like he was going ti punch me like his dad did to his mom. That all he wants is to relax when he gets off work and me wanting to spend any time with him or having sex later on that night is preventing him from relaxing. He said all he wants is play toys where he can relax and he tries so hard but nothing goes right.

I’m just at a loss and I’m trying so hard to be a good wife. My eyes hurt from crying