Would you date a guy that has a domestic violence without physical harm record? Back story... this guy ive been talking to checks all the boxes. Hes been kind, compassionate, caring, loving, and sweet. Ive had my fair share of toxic manipulative relationships and this guy doesnt give me those vibes at all. I do a background check on him and see his criminal record. I ask him about it and he tells me all the details (i take all information with a grain of salt because i barely know him). But basically his ex girl called her sister drunk after they got into an argument and said she was afraid he was going to leave her. Her sis called the cops and they took him in. No altercation, nothing physical, just her sister reacting. Im torn bc i dont fraternize with abusers, been there done that, but hes been honest about his past (from what ive dug up) since we started talking. So... would you take a chance on a guy who has turned his life around, trusted you enough to tell you his whole life story? the good, the bad, and the ugly without even a first date or meet up yet? He makes me feel giddy but ive drawn the line and told him up front i dont mess with people who hurt women. I see the pros and the cons of pursuing this... dont worry my actual therapist is gonna hear all about this guy this week!