Seeking Cerclage success stories

Previous pregnancy loss at 19w 2d. Currently 20w 2d with another pregnancy. Cerclage performed due to incompetent cervix. Currently have funneling to the cerclage stitch. Cervix being held closed successfully by current cerclage. Advised to take it easy, no heavy lifting, pelvic rest. Husband basically insists on partial bed rest at home and work to prevent any additional pressure on cervix. Still having cramping comes and goes not contractions, pelvic pressure at times as baby’s head is close to cervix. Curious to know cerclage success stories. So worried I’ll lose this baby too. 10% chance cerclage will fail according to md but I can’t bear it.

Key notes: seeking success stories from mamas who had cerclage with funneling