Bf of 12 years .. we have 2 daughters together.. found out he was a sperm donor to a female… they don’t speak anymore says he was just trying to help her have another baby. He is not physically attracted to her.. waived all rights at the clinic … wtf would you do😔 top it off found out he had a ring ready to give me soon… so confused.. can’t stop thinking about it.. do I throw these 12 years away im so lost