Can’t get it up 🥴

This guy I’ve been seeing is having a hard time getting it up. He hasn’t had sex with anyone in 6 years ( he’s 27 im 23) we both have bad anxiety and we’ve tried 4 times now.I get it, he’s nervous and we’ve talked about it. He can’t get it up but also when he could it’s quite small we can hardly do anything. He’s so genuine and sweet and that’s great but I’m also getting sexually frustrated and he would be too. Anyone been here?