Feeling lonely.
My husband and i have been together for 10yrs and married almost 5yrs. We used to cuddle and hold hands and sit togther and all that but now its like its almost awkward to hold hands or to even hug. The only time we kiss now is when one of us is leaving for work or having sex.. Theres no spark anymore. I still love him and look forward to seeing him all the time but he never wants to cuddle or play with my hair or hold hands anymore. We even sit on separate couches. Just wishing for him to ask me if i wanna sit with him. Weve had conversations about this before but nothing really seems to change. We have sex frequently and its always good but thats the only time he wants to compliment me now and tell me im sexy etc. But i dont want to hear that i want to hear compliments when i get all dressed up for him when im not even feeling it and i want him to cuddle me and hug me from behind or sneak kisses on me. I dont want gifts or money i just want that physical and emotional attention. Any advice? I know he loves me we have a good friendship if you will. But theres no romance anymore. To him thats cringe. He used to put his hand on my thigh when he would drive (not in a sexual way) and hold my hand in the car now it goes on the wheel whenever i reach for it and he will joke about it but its only not funny bc we never hold hands anymore. I could see it veing funny if we did. Im just tired of feeling physical touch and mentally lonely
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