My future husband has herpes 😢

I’m getting married to the man of my dreams but he just got tested and found out he has herpes. We haven’t had sex, as we are waiting for marriage but I’m really nervous to have sex on our wedding day. Has anyone been in a similar situation before, Specifically finding out your partner is positive before engaging in intercourse? How did you navigate? I don’t know if I should I ask him to use a condom or just accept my fate since we’re going to be married. Are there other ways to prevent contracting it?