Is it possible to orgasm without feeling it? My husband and I have sex a few times a week, and we sometimes use toys to help get us in the mood. My breasts are always one thing that gets me going, but with him, he needs a little more stimulation. Anyhow, when we use toys, we both get worked up pretty quickly. I feel slight quivering in my legs, when he uses them on me but then get overly sensitive in a matter of seconds. My husband says I usually leave the toy and or his hand wet when this happens. Is that me orgasming and just not realizing it? I don’t know if I’ve ever felt one. I know it sounds stupid, but I had a fair amount of trauma as a young child so it took me a long while to experiment to find out what I liked & didn’t. My husband has been my only consensual sexual partner if that makes any difference..