I CANT HAVE SEX.

I am flippin 33 years old, and I've never had sex. To be honest, i wasnt comfortable having sex with just anybody until last year. I found a man, we fell in love. We got married and every time i tried to get intimate with him, the penetration would hurt so bad, and I would be in pain. Even cry. So we'd end up not having sex. As much as I want to have sex now, I can't have it. Tried fingering, and only one finger goes in. Even two fingers make me cry. My vagina is super tight, and his penis is too large for it. I dont seem to have any health issues because my period is almost always on time and looks normal. However, i do get mad PMS sometimes. And honestly, I'm even afraid to see a doctor. Idk what to do. It has kind of lowered my self esteem. :(