Weaponized incompetence?

Does anyone else’s husband act like this?

I asked my husband to do ONE thing. One. Which was to watch our 2 yr old while I took my realtor exam. He said he could do it. It’s proctored and I told him several times I can’t even open my lips or look away from the computer or I can be failed. I get all the way done with my National portion of the test, just started on the state portion and in comes our 2 yr old talking and wanting to sit on my lap.

So the proctor is like you need to get him out of the room after they paused my test but I can’t talk, can’t move. So they finally say I can talk to get someone to get him out of the room. So I’m screaming for my husband to come get him and guess who never comes? My husband. So the proctor tells me to run and give our 2 yr old to someone else. So I get up and run our son to the bedroom and my husbands passed tf out. I’m like WAKE up. Wtf? I automatically failed the test because of it. So now I have to pay $62 for a 3rd time to take my test.

My husband’s saying it's my fault.. cause that makes sense 🙄 he's mad at me.. because that somehow also makes sense. This isn’t the first time he was supposed to watch our 2 yr old and that didn’t end up happening. I can’t get groceries by myself.. run errands without our son either getting hurt on his watch or him calling me in 30 min saying when am I going to get home. I’m SICK of running everything by myself 24-7 with no help from him. Please tell me this gets better because I can’t do this anymore. And then my husband telling me he can do what I do better and that I need to have everything done before he gets home from work.