Me and my husband just started our first poly relationship,the girl is AMAZING we clicked and have been in sync from the beggining from how were feeling to what were expecting and everythingin between BUT when it comes to the 3 of us in bed my husdand is making me feellikean "after thought", just.trying to figure out how to bring it up without making our girlfriend feel bad about.it because it literally has nothing to.do.with her end (like.i said in sync)