how do i talk to my boyfriend about spicy stuff as a shy person?

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so i’m a pretty shy person and DEFINITELY even more so when it comes to talking about sexual things that i’m interested in doing with my partner. it’s frustrating because there are lots of things that i actually want to say to him but i’m waaay to nervous to do so and i think he’s the same way. can someone please give me tips on how to get over my shyness and just say what’s on my mind? i’m ticking myself off lmao

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I used to be super nervous with my man too. What helped me get out of my shell is starting out by whispering the things I wanted to say to him in his ear. That way you don’t have to look them in the eyes when you say it

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@GlowGPT please help me with this topic!