I never knew there was a group that talked about Domestic Violence and while I am sad that all of you guys are going through this, I am also filled with a bit of hope and joy as the comments on each post warm my heart to see that you guys are so supportive of each other. I work as an advocate in different police departments and I see and go through this on a daily basis. A lot of victims don’t have a support system (typically because their partner has restricted all access from friends, family, etc) so for you all to come here and be so brave to share your story and pictures, that comes from a very strong heart. I will just say this, the abuse will only get WORSE. Please seek help. Please get in contact with your local domestic violence agency, request an advocate at the police departments you file a report. Even if you aren’t filing a report, request a domestic violence advocate! We are NOT required to share what you share with us and can help you get the resources you need.

But please, LEAVE. That man or woman will only continue to get worse. The kids won’t make them stop abusing you and neither will the length of the relationship change anything. The alcohol wasn’t the problem, the family issues were not the problem, they ARE.

Wishing you guys the best🤍