Not sure how to feel

Hi everyone, so my wife and I have been trying for a baby for a while and we got lucky and our first transfer worked! I’ll be 5 weeks tomorrow. I’ve wanted this my entire life. Im a FTM. Our fertility clinic is out of state and I had to be away from my spouse for 3 weeks in order to conceive our baby. I just got home yesterday and just expected such a loving and happy welcoming since I’ve come back with precious cargo and I did not get that reaction. She seems so disconnected from me and the baby and I’m trying to decide if I should just give it time or feel really sad about this…