Should i get him a sex toy

Hi so my boyfriend has asked if he could get a sex toy. Im not againstit as i have my own. But its all started since i got the iud normally we make sure we have sex every 2 days so we both get what we 'need' but since the iud im bleeding constantly and having cramps.so not really up to having sex we went a couple weeks without sex im not really bothered but i think since we normally do it evey 2 days i think he is missing out or needt to releave himself normally when on my period we have sex the first and last day of it when the bleeding is light but since has been really heavy for weeks now he wants to release but he doesnt like.using his hand as it doesnt feel the same. He wants a fleshlight as its supposed to feel like a women should i get him one. Im just hoping he doesnt likenit more than sex with me. I dont know what to do.