I don’t know what to do or what action to take my heart is hurting. My oldest dtr is 20 y/o and she has lately been purposefully trying to put me in a bind after I have been supporting her. I have pd 500 a month for her car ins I have let her and her roommate rent out my home for only a small amount I have been paying her car note which I put in my name so she could get a smaller monthly payment. Now she is refusing to pay rent, car note , she is listening to the wrong advice of the roommates mother who told them not to pay without a lease which they have been paying it’s like they are finding whatever excuse just to not pay! I can’t believe my child! My heart hurts!😢

I wanted to add to give more background: I told my dtr I have a extra room she could always come stay with me. The roommate is actually her GF and she told me that it’s not just her so my child has choose her Gf over respecting me. My daughter has been very very disrespectful towards me and I have help her over and over until I see now that did more damage than help. Even with her treating me like this I have given her knowledge on how things work as far as what she needs to do to be responsible since she doesn’t want to listen or respect me she has completely turned her ear. She even had a great job she had for 2 years they promoted her to management and she got this gf a job there working with her then she lost the job. From my knowledge she has a better job but she won’t tell me anything. So I have no choice but to let her be and as a mother who sacrifice and worked so hard to be there for my children I’m completely heartbroken 💔 she is going down this path.