Overreacting or no?

I’m going to try making this short and simple as I can.

My biological father signed his rights off on me when I was 12 years old. We didn’t see each other or even talk much before then or after. He wasn’t really apart of my life.

When I had turned 32 years old and was pregnant, my biological father and his wife wanted to start over and be in my life. Mind you my child was born June 2022. Now we have seen them maybe about 4-5 times since then. Which I have no issue with. Everything is fine really I have great communication with his wife, the problem is, my biological father and I don’t really talk 1 on 1. I imagine myself like trapped in a room with him and it seems like I wouldn’t know what to say, he’s also awkward too so I mean it would be super weird. I feel like he hasn’t really tried, other than being a grandpa to my son, which is great I love that. Just seems weird we don’t talk you know?

He signed his rights off bc my mom’s husband wanted to adopt me so that’s what we did. And life happened, I didn’t see them.

I been thinking about cutting them off tbh. Just feel bad and don’t know what to do. I talked to my partner about it but he made me feel bad bc he actually likes them and I do too but my father doesn’t talk to me. Ugh.

Ashley- they told me he felt like he was doing the right thing. He was only 18 years old, but now I fully understand since I’m a parent myself, I get it. I’m sure he does feel bad but I can’t control that and I’m wondering if it’s a bit much for him to have me around but my son and I are a packaged deal.