I neeed advice fast please! Red flag?!

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Okay so I’m 19, I work at fast food I have my own place and a guy at the drive through yesterday (who’s about 40) or in that range gave me a tip when I passed his food and asked for my number. I gave it and he texted & said I was beautiful and I told him a little about myself and he did also and asked if he could take me on a date. He asked for photos of me (which were face pics of me that I sent). 
He said he wants to go to the movies and take me to eat, I asked if we could do another day he said he’d be busy. So I said okay, he said he was gonna take me to get my nails and feet done and get an outfit. So that’s when I said okay what time? 
He’s gonna call me when he gets out of the shower but idk if I should go or not?? Is this a red flag? I’m new to the area and state and don’t want any man drama or stalker men. Should I go? Please be completely honest I’m only 19 don’t really know what I’m getting myself into.

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I absolutely would not go on a date with some 40yo dude who randomly handed me their number in drive thru. No offense to you or anything, but how desperate do you have to be to be a 40yo dude trying to hit on and take out a 19yo female. That in and of itself is a red flag. He’s trying to charm you. I used to work fast food and gotten a few guys like that. They honestly give me the ick. We’re there to work, not worry about getting hit on by men. It’s not uncommon for older men to try and charm,prey on younger females bc let’s face it. Y’all really don’t know any better which makes you easier to control.

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That gives me uncomfy vibes. It’s one thing to ask someone out to dinner but the rest is too much too soon. Flag for preying on and attempting to groom a younger person

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i don’t think a 19 yr old should be w a 40yr… that’s how u end up in relationships w a power imbalance.. it’s just very weird. a 40 year old shouldn’t be pursuing someone so young and naive

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A 40 year old has no business trying to date a 19 year old child. Period. This is predatory behavior.

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Movie, food, mani/pedi, clothes, after seeing you once in a drive thru? Creeper vibes. Wants one thing from you. Don’t do it.

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That would be a no for me. What would you to have in common?? He’s old enough to be you dad. Creepy vibes.

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Don't give your number to randos who come to the drive thru. You should block him and consider changing your number.

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If he is indeed 40- and you know that, yes this is a red flag. Did you exchange details like age? 
Maybe have more discernment when it comes to strangers.

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Don’t do it. You’re not even old enough to drink and he’s old enough to own a bar. Save yourself girl.

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I’d def be scared

I neeed advice fast please! Red flag?!

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