Feeling Judged by OB...

Ka

Katie

So short back story. I have had seizures (all 3) since i was 14 (31 now). I at one pointwas on 3 differentmeds to "help" with it but i still had them more often than when i was off them. Therefore, when we got pregnant with my daughter I went off then with dr approval. Never had a seizure. Had my son, same thing no meds no seizures. Well, i ended up habing 2 tonic clonics within 1 year and that freaked me out becausebefore it was 1 ever 3-4 yrs. So I caved and went to a neruo and got meds. No pregnant with my 3rd and staying on the meds. I thought this would help the judgment i received at ever visit with my daughter but today the dr actually told me "well you dont have to be nasty about it" because she asked me if I had increased my meds or not and i giggled and said no, why would i. I snapped after that though. To the point where i want to leave this practice but where i live they have cornered the market if you will. It just really ate at me today and when she asked, out in the open with other patientsaround, if id be making an appt with my neuro I just reacted and said "honestly probably not because as i explained in our visit I do not want to increase my meds because i am within range and im confused why you are discussing my HIPPA concerns in the open..." and then she proceeded to try correcting me saying it was well below the theraputic threshold, which is incorrect. I left and didnt wven make a 4 week appointmentwith them i was so pissed.Anyone else experiencedthis judgment becauseof your choice to not be on meds or not increase them?

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Ja

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She definitely should have not discussed your business in the open but they do have a right to be concerned. When you are pregnant your threshold lowers significantly which is why it's important to increase medication for you and your baby's safety. When I was 7 months pregnant with my second I went into status epilepticas. I had to be intubated because I stopped breathing and they couldn't get my seizure to stop. At the time I had only ever had a couple seizures in my entire life and I was on a very low dose of Keppra. Thankfully, I was in the emergency room with my daughter because she was sick. I was told if I was not already in the hospital when I started seizing I'd most likely be dead because I would have lost oxygen for too long which also means my baby would have died. Obviously, it's up to but it seems you are willing to be on them to prevent seizures but not willing to up them when you are pregnant? I am currently pregnant with my 3rd and have been stable on Keppra. I got my level checked at the beginning of my 2nd trimester and it was way below the threshold so I needed to up my dose. I am sorry you are feeling judged. I am not sure if you understand why your medication needs to be upped during pregnancy? You may have gotten lucky with your other pregnancy but it only takes one seizure to bring on a lot of complications if you truly do have epilepsy. I hope you are not offended but I am also a concern health care professional that also has epilepsy and experience with almost dying while pregnant because my dose was not at therapeutic range.