Problems in the bedroom 😞😩

Hello, my husband and I have been together for 4 years now and just got married. I love him but I am so sexually frustrated!!! He only wants to have sex once a week if that. And it’s literally a 30 second quickie. 3 pump chump and done. No four play or anything. Has anyone else experienced something similar? If so any advice? And yes I have asked him if there were issues and he says no he’s just tired. (But he really doesn’t do anything physical to be that tired)