Motherhood things that are not talked about !

Me

I feel like when people talk about motherhood it’s this beautiful thing I mean don’t get me wrong it the most amazing feeling in the world to know that you are loved by some one unconditionally but There are a few thing that I wish people would talk about more with having kids. once you become a mother you lose who you are as a person and how super lonely it is . No one ever check on to see how your doing unless your the one reaching out.The fact that you will have resentment towards your other half because there life doesn’t seem to change at all and they still do the same thing they use to do before you have kids.. the fact that you are the default parent no matter what is going on .And have to worry about grand parents playing favorites . Don’t get me wrong I love my children I do and I wouldn’t change the fact that i had them.. but I really wish that someone would have warn me that it would be like this I would have prepared my self for it … sorry for the little rant but I need to vent and don’t have anyone to talk to