Anyone who had a second baby after a traumatic first birth experience, do you have any advice? Having my first baby was absolutely horrendous, I don’t feel comfortable going into detail but I’m horrified of doctors now and anything medical related. It took me a really long time to even consider having another baby, and I’ve decided I want one, but I’m so so scared of being pregnant again and having to go to doctors appointments and obviously the act of having said baby. For those of you who have done it, was your second delivery different? Things you may have done differently to make it a better experience??