Wait for marriage or not?

Question

Hi ladies,
I am curious if it is better to wait for sex until marriage or just have sex and not wait for marriage? A part of me does not want to wait for marriage because I want to learn what positions I like and don’t and what pleasures me the most.

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This is very much so a personal preference.
Me, personally, I did not wait. I have ZERO regrets about it. I feel sexual compatibility is very important in a healthy relationship. I wouldn’t want to marry someone only to find out we aren’t sexually compatible. I also think couples should live together before getting married.

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Do what’s best for you. I always recommend doing it with someone you love and someone you could see yourself having children with. Otherwise why would you want to be that intimate with someone if you can’t even imagine having a child that is half of them? Accidents happen all the time, sex comes with consequences unfortunately 🥴 
Personally I waited and have no regrets.

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We waited until we got married. You learn what you both like or not together. I don’t regret waiting until we got married at all! For preference, we dated for 5 years before we got married (at 20 years old) and have been married for 8 years now!

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Is sex an important and meaningful thing to you?  I didn’t wait til marriage and do not regret waiting until marriage but I do wish I would’ve lost it to someone that I loved.

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Do what you feel is right for you 💕 that’s all that matters!

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As someone who didn’t wait. And just saw an opportunity to doing it with my high school crush at 15yrs. I would wait. Being 31 now I see if I would have waited it would have saved me a lot  of heart ache and regret for giving certain individuals access to my body. On top of being on birth control for 16yrs. It truly messes with your body’s natural cycle and increases your chances of depression while on birthcontrol. Please consider watching “business of birth control” Our bodies are truly a gift and if your not careful (like me) there are obvious consequences. Depending on your age, I would wait. It honestly sifts out ALOT of people who may not have the best intentions.

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I did not wait for marriage, but the person I first had sex with I ended up marrying. I would say it honestly depends on if that is important to you or not. It also not always likely that if you wait until marriage the person you marry will have also waited.

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I’m 22 & I’m glad I didn’t wait. I love my bf and I love experiencing it with him.

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It’s a personal choice. For me personally, it is very important to know that we have sexual chemistry early on.

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That choices can only come from you. I didn’t wait. I had fun  with people I loved and people I didn’t.  I made sure I was safe and protected. 
My husband and I have been together 14 years, married for 7. It never effected our relationship. We both knew what we liked before we got together. 
There is no right or wrong answer. It’s all about you deciding what is best for you

Wait for marriage or not?

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