I just gave birth to our second baby 4 days ago. I have a 14month old also. Is it normal to not really connect with the new baby? My first born is literally like my best friend and I feel so much love for her, but with the new baby I feel like I dont love her as much-shes adorable and a good baby and I love her but I prefer spending time with my oldest. Is this normal or is it a sign of possible ppd?