My bf struggles with low libido and ED. Because he has such low libido he never really takes his meds to get an erection so we go kinda awhile without having sex. I’m talking months..

He gives me so many compliments and tells me how beautiful I am and gives me kisses and butt grabs and everything. I feel bad for complaining about not getting sex when he tries to make me feel pretty but fuck i miss when he had higher libido and looked at me like he couldn’t wait to rip my clothes off of me. I miss that high sexual passion and I feel guilty for it. I don’t know how to express this without seeming like I don’t appreciate what he does give me or like I’m some sex crazed maniac.

Does anyone have advice on how I can communicate this? Or is this a ME issue and I’m the problem here?

I hate how self conscious I’ve gotten over this. 😔