this brought me nothing but misery
how do you get someone off your mind?
me (23F) and my coworker (26M) have been seeing each other for 3 months now. but nothing really happened. we like each other but for a minute everything is fine and well and sweet, and then i get the cold shoulder for days.
i asked him what’s up. is everything okay, did i do something? he said he suffers from bad depression and he just isolates himself from everyone, that it’s not me. we had this talk 3 times, 3 times he kept apologizing, saying that i’m right and he’s going to start being consistent, that he wants this to go in the right direction. (just to make it clear, i was very understanding, i told him i’m here if he wants to talk and it’s totally okay to take a step back, i just want to know when he’s not well)
i totally understand him, i was in the same position before, i know what it feels like. but i don’t know for how long i can keep doing this. i feel so unworthy and not enough, even though i used to isolate myself too, i still had the understanding for people around me, told them how i feel and i never dissappeared this way.
how do i get myself out of this swamp? how do you get someone off your mind?
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