Pregnant and stressed out!

A few months ago, we took in a friend in a domestic violence situation to help her out. She owns her own house 2 hours away. She got a job in our town to get away from her ex. Originally, the deal was that her and her new bf would move in while looking for a house to get together. This was supposed to be a couple weeks max.

Well, that's where things get tricky. Her bf broke up with her but she still moved in. Ok no biggie, we decided to help her out for a bit until she can find a place. She was going to pitch in on food costs with her EBT card.

Well, it's now been over four months. She has an aggressive dog that has attacked my service dog several times now and she's had to have surgery three times! She said she couldn't afford to pay our vet bill. I'm on bedrest with a high risk pregnancy. My poor dog has to stay in my room all day and all night for safety reasons.

She only helped out with food one time. Up until this month, she has eaten dinner with us almost every night. Now she just eats out everyday. Must be nice! When she first moved in our utilities DOUBLED! She does not help with bills or anything at all!

Her dogs tore up my carpet in my formal dining room to the point that half of it was ripped up from the subfloor. No offer to help pay for damages! This is a new house that I've not even lived in for a whole year yet!!

They also ripped every single gutter/drain off the side of my house out back! No offer to pay! My hubby replaced the gutters and drains and they did it again! This was after my hubby told her she had to be outside with them from now on!

Her dogs piss on the side of my house and all over the concrete instead of the back yard. It's so bad you can smell it inside the house!! This is in addition to get male dog marking every piece of furniture in my house! She just laughed it off. Ugh!

They are both GSD/husky. There is a layer of fur all over the house. I've always had GSD myself so I understand. However, she does not clean up after them or herself! She left a trash bag full of trash outside of her room door for weeks, thinking my hubby would just throw it out for her. She comes home and first thing she does is bark at my hubby "what's for dinner". My hubby cooks only because I'm on bedrest and can't. He does construction work and works long hard days. She works in an office.

She can't afford to move out or help out with anything but will at least once every two weeks come home with a dozen or so shopping bags from the mall! I'm talking Victoria's secret, Abercrombie and Fitch, gap, etc. She goes out every weekend. She eats out every single day.

My hubby had to go back to work literally just to be able to support us now that the friend moved in. Prior to her moving in, we lived comfortably on my VA disability (I'm a disabled combat veteran). My hubby was able to stay home and take care of me. Now he has to work which means I have to wait until he gets off work in order to eat anything. This means I'm skipping at least lunch every single day!

Because she doesn't clean and hubby is never home, I have to try and clean up after her (only in the common areas) little bits at a time everyday. She does not do her own dishes or take out the trash ever! I'm constantly sick and throwing up and in pain.

We have told her she needs to look for somewhere to go cuz we need her room for our child's nursery. Which I'm dreading having to clean after she leaves because it's horribly disgusting! I'm talking food and cans on the floor, a carpet of dog hair everywhere. She's not vacuumed or cleaned her room or the bathroom she uses since she got here (months)! It smells like a dog kennel in there! She told us, I'm sorry but I have nowhere to go and can't afford a place. She literally has a whole house she doesn't live in that she can sell or rent out!! She keeps getting denied for an apartment because when she moved out, instead of paying her mortgage and car payment, she was instead only paying her credit card and furniture debt (which is in her ex's name)!

Then the last straw I guess is that I have autoimmune issues and she didn't feel good, so she came down to my bedroom to watch TV with me and said it was allergies! Then later the next day she is yelling at her friend for giving her RSV! Omg! Why would you put me at risk like that? I'm having to do breathing treatments now cuz she got me sick.

She literally offered to replace my hubby as my caregiver so she could get the paycheck. I've literally never seen her cook or clean after herself, I don't trust her to do it for money that will end up coming out of my pocket cuz otherwise it would still go to my hubby. I swear we must be in the Twilight zone.

I don't know, I guess I just needed to vent. Thank you if you have read this far I apologize.