Is he selling me a dream?

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I’m 20 and I’ve been talking to a hit for a few weeks now, we’ve had sex already (no we don’t use condoms) but he has 2-3 kids already one is 6 or 7 the other is 2 and the last is like under one, maybe 7-8 months. Whenever he talks to me he stares into my face and we smoke a lot, he comes to get me at night and brings me with him to work for a couple hours and he brings me home. (We’re literally only 10 mins from each other) and he asked me was I on birth control I told him no and he just smiled and stared at me and I smiled back and we had a discussion about him wanting more and he said he wouldn’t mind it and that he would actually like that. He said “We can definitely make that work and happen” and I said okay. Mind you he’s 29 just for reference lol.
Is he selling me a dream or does he sound serious about having a baby together? This would be my first, I really like him.

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Everyday that I use this app I think "wow that had to be the dumbest thing I read" and yet every day there's another person to leave me speechless.

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Red flag number one: a 29yr old man is interested in a 20yr old. 
Red flag number two: he has multiple children already. 
Red flag number 3: You two are having unprotected sex and talking about kids after only a few weeks. 
He’s telling you what he thinks you want to hear to keep getting in your pants.

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Either you have no brain or you’re a troll. One cannot possibly be this stupid WILLINGLY.

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You’d just be the next baby mom it sounds like. Doesn’t sound special at all

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Nothing about this person sounds like a dream. 
Girl set standards for yourself, you’re asking to be baby mamma #3 at this point. Or whatever number he is on.

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Some guys love doing this, they love the honeymoon and spreading their seed to maje babies and thats about it, conquest accomplished and they move on. Hes clearly done this with other women and it didnt work out fir them. A lot if women make a mistake and attribute a guy's pattern as random or it just happened or it was because of her, but *of course with me it will be different we have an amazing connection* but duh, thats his character and track record, dont think youre immune to that. I would run.

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I hope this is a troll because you can’t be serious. 
You just met the guy, he’s got 3 other kids and wants a kid with you? Gtfo. Open your eyes because idk what kind of dreams you’re having.

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When you said 2-3 kids… You meant he has three kids 😂 All with the same woman? Different women? He had a baby 7 to 8 months ago, what's up with that relationship? You've only known him for a few weeks, what's the rush? To me someone who wants to have a baby with someone after a few weeks of meeting them, is not thinking clearly. You both sound like you're not thinking clearly. Something for you to ponder… If he's no longer with those women that he impregnated, is he taking care of his children? Why is he not with any of those women that he impregnated? Do you think you'll be the exception? Or do you not mind having a baby with someone who won't stay with the mothers? ￼

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Omg. Red flags everywhere. This has to be a joke.

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Is anyone else confused by the number of kids this guy has? 2-3, which means… what? Since those are VERY different numbers of children, and also, OP is sharing 4 different ages and one is under a year and does this guy just not know how many kids he has?! 
He has a literal baby with another woman right now and he’s ready to knock boots again? WHAT is this insanity?

Is he selling me a dream?

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