Baby no longer wants to breastfeed

Leo

My baby is 14 weeks tomorrow and the last 3 days he has been protesting against the breast and prefers a bottle and it's breaking my heart. I miss the bond and not only that him preferring a bottle is so much extra work since I got to prep the pump, pump, prep bottle, wash pump, dry pump , wash bottles when I used to just pop him on the boob and cuddle him . My husband says I'm being selfish and maybe I am but I'm just sad about it I guess