me and my bf have had sex 3 times and when we tried to do it today i was feeling it i was in the mood, i was comfortable and ready and it was the literal worse pain ever. before this time it has hurt a bit putting it in at first but then it was fine but this time it hurt so much idk what else to do. we used a condom bc we are always trying to be safe and we tried multiple times to put it in and i simply couldn’t handle it even tho i was relaxed and comfortable