I’m not sure if he was just drunk or wtf is going on.

We have been friends for a while. Recently we have been flirty and curious to have fun. I always found him attractive and he confessed he’s been wanting to have sex with me. I agreed to it. FYI: we have only kissed and teased eachother. We Haven’t had sex yet…until today.

So today he asked me if I wanted to hang out at his house and watch movies. He lives at the back house. His mom lives in the front. I said sure as long as he had no issues with his family because he is bringing in a girl. I knew we would have sex this time…I was expecting it tbh. He told me that his family was at the backyard drinking and they don’t care at all. I told him I didn’t mind but that I didn’t wanna make it awkward for him. I get there and he introduced me to his family as a friend of course. I met his mom, dad, uncle, sister, and other people. He offered a beer and asked me if I wanted to stay outside with his family or go inside. We chilled and 30 min later I asked if I could use the restroom. He took me in and he put on Netflix. We were just talking and he started pecking my lips. Not sure if he was shy cause he was not making a move. He was only caressing my hair.

All of a sudden I go all out. We did it and after we were done we talked some more. He had 5 beers already so I’m not sure if he was drunk. He looked fine tbh. He started telling me some weird stuff. He said that he’s not the type of man who would sell me a dream. He is always upfront about his intentions. He said eventually he wants a relationship cause it’s tough being single as a single dad but he doesn’t force love. He said he wants to do things right first before he has more kids. He told me he wants 4 kids. Then he started sharing all his dreams. I didn’t know what to say to that. He continued to say that the first time we hung out he had a really good time with me and that he is still having a good time with me. He said that if he didn’t find me attractive or have a good time with me he would have told me from the beginning and not show interest in me. He said he thinks I’m really pretty and that he can easily read people and can tell I’m a good girl. He said I have a good heart and he would never try to hurt me or lead me on. At this point I want to cry cause I never had a guy talk to me like this😭😭 (I come from an abusive relationship)

I got up and hugged him. He asked me what I’m doing for new years. I told him my family usually drinks and has a barbecue. He asked me if he can go and have a drink with my family. I said sure lol. He said “let me go take a 12 pack and drink with your dad” I said sure. I left and I texted him saying thank you for his family being so welcoming. They were nice offering me drinks and snacks. He said it was no problem and that he never introduces anyone to his family but he did it this time for me.

Like wtf is going on here!!!!!!