Ive been with my partner for 6 years.we.always argue. We have 2 kids together. We both come.to the realisations that the relationship we have had for.the 6 years was a situationship not a.actual relationship i fell pregnant 3 month into the relationship so we stayed.together for the baby we always argued never had the connection so we thought another baby.could bring us together. But in November we hit a.wall.and the arguments and that.got.worse.last.night we sat down and realised it wasnt a relationship at all. We have great.sex but we feel more like friends wit benefits he did move.out in novemeber but it was to get some.distance and figure out what.to do. We do love.each other but more like friends with kids.together.( we been friends.since.we.was.5) We want to try.having.a.relationship and build the connection as we do love eachother and want to make.it work but how can we have a fresh new relationship with each other with what.has happened in our past we never had the whole dating thing and building an emotional connection it was got pregnant.and move in together from pretty much day one i meed advise i love him so much he loves.me.