Not even sure if it’s the correct word. I posted on Friday about a guy who suggested a hotel on a second date.

We were originally wanting to go eat but then right when I was going to leave home he tells me he wants to spoon me. He suggested we go to a nice hotel or his place. I went to his apartment with no intentions of doing it. At that point I knew what his true intentions were. I still went smh

I fucked up. He kept his distance from me. He sat on his bed and I sat on the couch. He just leans over to kiss me. It was just a peck on the lips.

It gets awkward and I stand up and lean in towards him to kiss him. Yeah shit led to sex: protected of course.

When we were done he said “hey don’t feel like you have to pay me back when I invite you out” I was confused cause he paid our dinner the first date and I never have offered. He said that just because he asks me to go eat or hang out he doesn’t need something in return. He said he’s “a gentleman” wtf! If you were a gentleman you wouldn’t suggest a hotel. Did he feel like I felt obligated to have sex. At that point I felt horrible cause I was the one who initiated making out. All he did was peck my lips. Then why the fuck did he suggest a hotel? He obviously wanted right?

When I left I texted him saying I got home. He replied and I didn’t even respond to him. He said I surprised him and he loved it! Yeah ok… left him on read and he told me Goodmorning the following day despite leaving him on read. Now I feel like the dumb one. Or maybe he was just playing the nice guy and I fell for it. Either way that comment made me feel like I did it just to pay him back