Hi all, not sure if I’m being insecure or if my feelings are valid but I have recently found out that my boyfriend watches porn every once in awhile when I’m over at his place. I only get to see him on the weekends and I feel weird that he feels the need to watch that when I’m over. I understand that during the week when I’m not there he has needs and it's totally ok with me if he watches that when I'm not over, but why doesn’t he seek me out when I’m there for his pleasure? I have brought it up to him that I know he's doing this and he says that that's what all men do and that it's normal. He says that if I'm asking him to stop watching porn that he doesn't think he can stop. Is this something any of you girls relate to? I need advice on how to handle this situation or if it's just something men do. I've never been in this situation before in previous relationships so I don't know how to feel.