NEWLYWED- IN NEED OF HELP❤️‍🩹‼️ GODLY ADVICE NEEDED

Recently got married and my husband we serve and follow the Lord. My husband is a man after Gods heart. His mind is being under attack bad. I’m praying but everything is like making him have a fear that I’m going to leave he has been literally pushing me away. We will be doing so good then boom he starts an argument and twists everything I say to make him be the victim. My heart hurts because I can’t even express how this is making me feel he is only concerned on how he feels I’m not respecting him. I’m praying I’m also a very strong willed woman. I have been submitting and trying to be softer which is different for me. I’m the only one that comes forth in peace when these arguments transpire and he is the one who starts them, he will only apologize if I apologize first. I’m exhausted already. I understand the emphasis on spiritual warfare I just need some spiritual advice and encouragement. Please 🙏🏽