NEWLYWED- IN NEED OF HELP❤️‍🩹‼️ GODLY ADVICE NEEDED

Get marriage counseling at your church, speak with your pastor. Seek couples therapy.

My husband and I got married in 2022, and I was having similar experiences except I was the one acting like your husband. However, my husband went through something and he was so stressed all the time, and it was a very heavy and dark time for him which poured over onto me. In our pre-marital counseling at our church, the wife said to me, “you are designed as his helper. You will see attacks on him, that he may not see. When you see those things, pray and ask the Lord what He wants you to do about it. 9 times out of 10, He won’t want you to do anything bc He will handle it, but sometimes He’ll ask you to do something.” So I did that, and I also (fairly often) go to the Lord when he and I are in a fight or something, and I pray something along the lines of “God, I have no idea what to do. I’m at the end of my rope, please help us.” The Lord will speak to me on what I need to do, and He’ll speak to my husband. Without fail, every time, one of us prays that prayer the person who is in the wrong will come and apologize almost immediately. If you have a safe space in any female friends, text them. Don’t give them details, as to honor your husband with where he’s at, but he honest with them and ask them to pray. I also agree with the person above, seek counsel and seek help. Praying blessing over you

Also!! I forgot to mention- write Bible verses on paper and tape it above your bed. My husband and I were having super demonic dreams pretty consistently, and I had prayed over the house, over our bed, etc. I wrote down Bible verses of the Lord’s protection & peace, and taped it above my bed. That was about a month and a half ago, we haven’t had a single demonic dream since. Do that with verses that coincide with your situation!!

Prayer is a powerful weapon.Cover him in prayer daily that the Lord will.guide him.

Either he has avoidant or anxious attachment or he's emotionally immature and unable to communicate his feelings without making them abusive towards you. Either way, you need counselling to help communicate better. If you're newly weds and are being made to feel this way, it's not going to be a healthy marriage without professional help and him making an effort to better himself.

Marriage this early is very normal to have these issues...actual marriagebegins after 5 years of marriage which is when most fail..you are in the learning stage both of you have to learn to chanfe and compromise during this time. Discuss things openly an transparently. Talk to your men, make him listen with love and kindness..dont give up and yes pray hard. Just rember in you sirvive these hard beginning years it will be a smoothride after. Hang in there.

Marriage counseling for sure. See if either of your jobs offer EAP services where counseling is free. First years of marriage can be tough so counseling of 3rd party… preferably christian counseling … can be helpful!

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