What you you do? Please share. I’m shaken up and at a loss. I sold the home my mother left me in her passing years ago. RIP my sweetest angel. Look, long story short, my husband lost all but 13k of that money in the stock market 📉🥺. Did I give him permission to use the money that was set aside to day trade with? Yes. But before we jump on ME just know that I already feel like the biggest dummy on the planet 😭. I was fooled! I’m too embarrassed to even tell my friends or family because I speak so confident and highly of my husband. All to find out he lied to me.

I never thought it would happen to me me but he manipulated and hid the truth so well. From what I had been shown, told, and fed, I was quite confident that he was competent and would do everything he said he would. I mean from what I knew, he was pretty good at this I mean he has been trading since 2019 and is always reading and learning and practicing and playing in the stock market and winning. From what I knew he only had 1 big loss ever and that was years back and he learned from it.

I FOUND OUT the last week of December that he lost a lot of that money.

I FOUND OUT THIS YEAR 2024 that he actually lost almost ALL of that money and lied about how much he lost after being given over week to come clean.

IN REALITY: he lost all but $13k, profited nothing, only had $4k to begin with before adding in the house money AND never EVER made a profit that he was able to hold on to for more than 4 weeks. From 2019 to present he has been unsuccessful. He lied until he couldn’t anymore. 😔. My capacity for forgiveness and mercy is high, I am a Christian woman. But I cannot trust this man.

A part of me wants just go off and do all the things he has been holding me back from. I want to go to California, I want to go to Disney World in Florida, I want to camping, and dammit I want a BBL!