I just got into a good routine and feel like myself again, my son is 17 months old and he’s walking and starting to talk. We were trying but not very seriously. I know deep down I’m excited for this pregnancy and baby but I also feel so scared. First trimester sickness and the newborn stage and sleep deprivation kicked my butt with our son, and I literally just do not understand how I can do it again with a toddler. He takes a 2 hour nap every day thankfully so I will be able to rest, at least for the next few weeks or months. But we have no help besides my in laws who can babysit every other weekend or so for the day. We could ask them to help more on the weekends, I think they would. We can’t really afford a house cleaner because our extra $ is currently going to my therapy which I will need for at least another 4-5 months I think.

I also don’t know how I will go to all of the prenatal doctor appointments, my husband works during their office hours and I don’t think I can bring my toddler. Or can I? I could try and just book for late in the afternoon.

I’m wondering if anyone has multiple kids, do you have any advice? I want to stop worrying so much and enjoy this.