I met the love of my life in September last year. I think I conceived the first time we had sex mid to end December. He is sooo excited and supportive and sweet. His heart is full. I live however in Los Angeles and he lives in South Africa. Anyone done this while not having dad around? We are planning on starting VISA & passport applications ASAP. I will need to move to a bigger place as soon as I get back to the US end of this month. Nervous to tell our families. I am 30 and he is 26. (Also the moment I type here my attached picture disappears - so strange)