Is he gay?

For context I’ve known this guy for around 2 years we have spoken on and off. I slept with him almost 2 years ago and he didn’t cum (this is never happened to me, I brushed it off) spoke to him seen him but not slept with him. Now recently I’ve been speaking to him again and he’s telling me things like he’s not allowed to fuck me I’m allowed to fuck other people. He wanted me to have sex with someone and film it for him, asks me to have sex with someone whilst he watches and then licks the cum off both of us. I get there is fetishes but he is so obsessed with talking about dick when he’s horny he’s hot but he just doesn’t want to have sex with me he just wants to hear about the sex. I have with someone else?