I'm so angry and hurt right now. Me and my ex husband got divorced a month ago. He asked for the divorce. Our marriage started getting really rocky a year ago and we have 4 kids together. My best friend was there for me during the separation. She's been my best friend since childhood. I was there for her when she gave birth and her husband couldn't be there because he was in the military. A week after me and my husband divorce she leaves her husband. 3 weeks after my divorce and 2 weeks after she leaves her husband I find out she is now with my ex husband. I feel blindsided and hurt. They are both claiming they didn't cheat and idk if I believe that. I feel like they had to at the very least emotionally cheated or have been craving each other for a while to start dating so soon after our divorce. I have spoken to her husband because we were all surprised by the separation and he said it was out of nowhere. He thought they were fine. She never once said they weren't okay and then she's asking for a divorce. I have such a hard time believing there wasn't an affair going on. I know I have to be tough and co-parent for my kids. But all the men in the world and she chooses my husband? I feel betrayed on ALL levels.