Sooo I’m just dumb af lol…

I’m in a relationship with someone and before we had sex I asked him if he was clean (Ig in my mind I assume he knew I meant if he was tested for STDs and STIs…. first dumb mistake) and he gave me a very confident yes, so I just trusted that he was actually “clean” and has been tested and he just seemed like a very cautious person pertaining to his health anyway.

One night he came over to my apt and it was very spontaneous and we didn’t have intercourse, but he did go down on me. I still don’t know if it’s from him or my period or both but after he went down on me and I started my period about a few days later, I started to experience some itching after my period was over. I didn’t think too much of it since it’s happened before right after my period was over and I just get hella sensitive down there around that time anyways.

But about a couple of days after my period, I had sex with him and we went raw because he said he couldn’t feel anything with the condom and kept going soft…(one of the biggest dumbass mistakes) so I decided to let him go raw and that I was gonna take the pill afterwards.

I started to notice more itching which turned into what I assumed a yeast infection according to my research of the symptoms and I started getting pimples around my mouth nose and chin. I finally decided to ask him again but more clearly if he’s gone to the doctor and got tested for stds and he said nah he’s never been tested but he knows he’s fine because he don’t fuck around like that and don’t have symptoms………. I told his ass to go get checked and that I was too. So now I’m waiting on his results and my appointment 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️