Ive been really stressed lately. I'm 36 weeks pregnant and have a C-section in 3 weeks. My husband also needs surgery but keeps putting it off. He had a cyst on his left lung that he HAS to get surgery for and he keeps dancing around it. It's causing me to stress. My husband doesn't like the idea of being put to sleep because when he was 17 he was taken advantage of while still coming off anesthesia. Not by any doctors or staff. It was a family member. So now he has a phobia of being put under anesthesia. He needs this surgery though. He was supposed to schedule it weeks ago amd hes either gonna wait so long that we are both healing at the same tine and i get no help or hes gonna wait so long that something bad happens to him. Hes purposely forgetting to make that appointment because he doesn't want to go under. We have 3 kids and his health and breathing has been declining for a while.