So I broke up with my boyfriend last week and I just want to hear some inputs from people who aren’t afraid to hurt my feelings 👌

So my ex is 27 and I’m 23 I’ve never been in a relationship before I’m just going to tell you guys some of the things that haven’t been okay since then…

So my guy friend said “break up with your boyfriend and let me smash” I of course told him that it was not appropriate and to respect my relationship and he left it alone but I told my bf at the time and he ignore me for a few hours and finally we talk and he ask me to block him and I did once I saw how it made him feel granted I should have done that on my own but I digress

I have depression and my bf told me that he doesn’t think I have depression

He would yell at me when I would remind him to turn off the lights bc I’m the only one paying the light bill and there was no way the bill should be 150 in a 1 bed apt in Tx it’s my apartment so I don’t ask him to pay for anything)

We started dating in April and at the end of may he had surgery and I agreed to drive him back and take care of him but then he yelled at me bc I wasn’t feeding him correctly… he started stay at my apt more often after the surgery because “he didn’t like leaving me” I didn’t mind bc I was more attached then

We ended up sitting down and talking bc he was upsetting me and then he told me that he ignore the small things I ask him to do bc he feels like I fixate on them and they are stupid. (Should have been my sign to go probs idk)

He randomly decided he was going to buy the groceries and I was going to pay rent and electricity and internet. It was fine for a little until he said I was being greedy and eating way too much just because I didn’t have to pay for it. So we switched it now he just pays half of rent but he says because he buys my food when he’s eating out it balances out.

And the brick through the window of our relationship was when he came in after I decided not to talk to him about things that mean things to me bc he gives me lectures and tries to down play it or make it into a joke he came in and asked me about my mental health still decided to throw advice in and the tried to ask me if I was retarded… legit said “are you sure somewhere in that diagnosis it doesn’t say anything about retardation”

That was in order… lol

Thanks for reading it you made it this far…