I've tried anal a couple times. I've tried prepping with foreplay, fingers, lots of lube and it's still extremely painful for me. Not only that but I hate the feeling of lube idk why. I don't have any issues getting/ staying wet so l don't use lube anyway. When things go in my butt I literally start to feel sick must be a mind over matter thing but idk I just don't think l'll ever be able to do it. Can anyone relate?